Wanting to be Heard is Not Unique.
Everyone wants to be heard.
Being heard is a need for all, but it just might call for you to show up differently. Think about the person’s behaviors and personality and then use the tips below to help show up as a good listener.
Listening Tips:
When listening to someone that is driven and decisive show up direct, concise, and to the point. Focus on the main ideas and avoid getting bogged down in details.
When listening to someone that is inspiring and interactive show enthusiasm and interest in what they have to say. Allow them to share their ideas and feelings, and provide positive feedback and encouragement.
When listening to someone that is servant-hearted and stable be patient and supportive. Give them time to express their thoughts and feelings, and show empathy and understanding.
When listening to someone that is cautious and calculated be prepared and organized. Show that you have done your research and are knowledgeable about the topic at hand. Avoid making assumptions and be open to new ideas and perspectives.